Looking for fun positions to try that go beyond the regular missionary? Here are some of the best sex positions that’ll
So you’ve mastered missionary and done it a zillion times already. It might even be your favourite go-to position by now and there’s nothing wrong with it, but if you’re looking to experiment with something else, you’re not alone. Switching things up and experimenting with new positions are important parts of a healthy se life.
So how about the next time you and your partner are about to do the deed, instead of resorting to your routine, consider whipping out one of these crazy moves? Think of these as upgraded sex positions!
The Chairman
Looking for a position that’s both pleasurable and comfortable? Try the chairman position right away. Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed while you sit on them facing away. The chairman is perfect for viewing pleasure, especially if you make the chair face the mirror!
Doggy Style
There’s a reason why doggy style is one of the most favourite position ever. And that’s not it, you can also incorporate some back play during. Curious? The next time you’re doing doggy style, have your partner rub a ice block on your back or have them glide a feather along your back during penetration. It’s guranteed to amp up your experience.
Spoon Sex
If you thought good old spoon sex was boring, think again. You can easily turn up the heat–starting with ear and neck play. This position allows your partner to play into your ear and neck by kissing or whispering while they’re holding you close.
You can both start by lying on your sides, facing the same direction. Bring your knees slightly up while your partner slides up and enters you from behind.
The Good Ex
Looking for a position where you get to gaze into each other’s eyes while doing it and you still get to pleasure yourself? Well, try the good ex! You can start by sitting on the bed facing each other legs forward. Next, lift your partner’s right leg over your left an lift your right leg over their left. Come together so that it’s easier for them to enter you. Both of you can lie back and enjoy the thrusts.
Spider
Spider is a slightly similar to the good ex, except over here your partner is sitting rather than lying down. Also, in this, your pelvis should be above his while your legs bend to the side of their body.
You’ve probably heard about making a bucket list for life, but have you heard about sex bucket lists? Curious? Here’s ev
You’ve probably heard about making a bucket list for life–jump out of a plane, swim with sea turtles, eat something bizarre in Thailand, but well have you heard about sex bucket lists? As the name suggests, it’s a bucket list for your sex life that features new exciting things you want to try in the bedroom with your partner. The best part about making and maintaining one is that it can save you and your partner from getting trapped in a sex rut.
Interested in creating one? Here’s what should be on your sex list.
Things To Put On Your Sex Bucket List
A sex bucket list should include all the things you and your partner fantasize about and watch. Here are a few things that you can put on your list to begin with:
Shower Sex
Instead of adding things like making out in a jungle in the middle of nowhere only to eventually abandon your list midway, how about starting with small achievable things instead? Like having steamy shower sex! It’s fun, easy and the joy of ticking something off your list will only encourage you to do more things!
Film Yourself Having Sex
Not only is it fun to make a sex tape, provided both of you are okay with the idea, but it’s also incredibly hot to watch it together later. Just remember to turn sharing off!
Have Sex On A Boat
Whether it’s getting down and dirty on a cruise, a yacht, a sailboat or simply a canoe, experiencing the motion of the ocean can be a memorable experience. Just be careful if you’re prone to motion sickness, in that case, it’d best to leave out this one!
Use Food Items
If you haven’t already done this, here’s why you need to ASAP. You’d be surprised how incorporating food into your routine can enhance your sexual experience. Whipped cream, flavoured honeys, chocolate sauce, strawberries—there’s a whole lotta foods you can incorporate during sex.
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Try To Go By Sex For A Month
Resist having sex with your partner for a month, all the while the both of you continue teasing and trying to turn each other on. The result? Some very hot and memorable celebration at the end!
Public Sex
Apparently, the ultimate rush of sexy fun happens when you do something risky like having sex in public! The idea of getting caught can be exciting to some. However, remember that having sex in public is illegal so it’d best to be super careful if you plan to tick this one off your list.
Want to crank things up a notch in bed? Dump the usual missionary, doggy, and girl-on-top sex positions, and try these new ones.
What’s not to love about sparks flying in the bedroom? However, going with only a few tried and tested positions, sex could get monotonous. If you are looking to spice things up, take a cue from these new avatars, which will not only make your romps thrilling but also make you more adventurous between the sheets.
What: The Victory
Difficulty level: High
Lie down on your back, raise your legs, and let your partner kneel down in front of you. Then, he spreads your legs apart in a wide V (hence the name victory), and penetrates while kneeling. “This posture is especially great for women since it stimulates the G-spot and clitoris. Not only will it give him maximum pleasure since the penetration is deeper, but it also maximises your pleasure as well,” says Dr. Jayanti Kabir, a Kochi-based gynecologist and fertility expert.
What: The Magic Mountain
Difficulty level: Moderate
As the name suggests, this position involves you and your partner sitting facing each other, with legs bent upwards to resemble a mountain. The knees become the peaks. Then, move slowly towards each other until you are able to make contact, and can have sex easily. You may need to place your palms on your sides for better support. Janhavi K Sriram*, a 23-year-old software coder from Bangalore says, “I tried this out with my boyfriend, and it was great fun. It gave us equal leverage and control, and we could also observe the act of having sex, which can be a real turn-on.”
What: Side-by-Side
Difficulty level: Easy
When you’re lazy or tired but are still in the mood for sex, the side-by-side position can make things easier. Your partner and you lie on your sides, facing each other, and scuttle close enough to have sex. It’s as easy as that. “Since both have support beneath, one person isn’t putting in a lot of effort. Also, the change of angle makes for a newer, different sort of penetration for the two parties. If you want to get more adventurous, you can try side-by-side 69 for great oral sex,” says Dr. Kabir.
What: The Crab
Difficulty level: High
This is an extension of the cowgirl, but with slight variation. Instead of using your knees to support your weight, keep your feet flat on either side of your partner, and then gently lean back, placing palms on the sides of his legs. You may also rest your palms on his legs, depending on what gives you a better grip. Your partner bending his knees slightly for better support is a good option too. Then, sink on top of him, and start moving rhythmically and gently. Dr. Santhanam Jagannathan, a Chennai-based sexologist advises, “This position is great for foreplay and can be rewarding when done correctly. However, if you’re unable to climax in this position, you could consider starting off with it, and moving to girl-on-top when you and your partner are ready to orgasm.”
What: The Tominagi
Difficulty level: Moderate
An ideal pick for flexible women, the Tominagi involves you lying on your back, with legs bent towards your chest. Your partner kneels in front of you, holding your shins or ankles for support, and then enters. The man controls the level of penetration here, so all you’ll need to do is stay in position and enjoy yourself. “This is a relaxing position for a woman who doesn’t mind letting her partner take the lead. My partner and I have tried it, with fabulous results, especially since the vagina tends to be tighter in this position, making it more pleasurable for both of us,” says Chennai-based yoga instructor Uttara Krishnamurthy*.
What: The Om
Difficulty level: Easy
Let your partner sit cross-legged on the floor, and you sit on top of him, positioning yourself in a manner that he can enter you easily, with your legs wrapped around his back. Gently rock back and forth, and sideways to get your libido going. “This may not be a great posture to attain orgasm unless you keep at it for a very long time), but it is a great precursor to sex that is more aggressive. It brings partners together, and helps them connect while feeling good at the same time,” opines Krishnamurthy.
What: Crouching Tiger
Difficulty level: High
To achieve this position, your partner lies on the bed with his legs hanging off the edge from the knees. Facing away, gently lower yourself onto him while squatting. “While maneuvering yourself into this position may not be very tricky, to sustain having sex for long might be difficult unless you have fabulous thigh muscles, or the two of you orgasm soon,” states Dr. Jagannathan.
What: Missionary With a Twist
Difficulty level: Easy
The idea is to lie down flat on your back with three or four pillows under your butt so your pelvis is raised. Bend your legs at your knees, spread them, and plant your feet on the floor to ensure support. Your partner needs to kneel down in front of you between your legs and bend, entering you simultaneously. Says Sriram, “This offers the benefits of the missionary, and is great for the woman as the raised pelvis allows for deeper penetration. My boyfriend and I try it whenever we want to spice up missionary, but don’t have the patience to try out something completely new.”
What: Face-Off
Difficulty level: Easy
Hop onto a table or countertop and make yourself comfortable. Your partner penetrates you while standing in front of you, but they can also stimulate you orally.
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What: Spooning
Difficulty level: Easy
Yes, spooning is not just a way of cuddling, but also a great sex position. For the traditional spoon, both of you need to lie on your sides while facing the same direction. Bring your knees slightly up while your partner enters you. You can also do a seated spoon with you sitting on your partner’s lap as they sit on the edge of the bed or on a chair.
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What: Cowgirl
Difficulty level: Moderate
In this position, the penetrating partner lies on their back. The other partner straddles them into a squat position. Use pillows under the knees to get a lift, if needed. Face your partner, or turn around to do a reverse cowgirl!
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What: Laying On Pillow Top
Difficulty level: Easy
Introducing a pillow or cushion into any sex position can allow for something new to explore. Pillows also protect your joints, reduce pain and avoid strains. So use a pillow or two to alleviate stress and elevate pleasure.
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What: Ballet Dancer
Difficulty level: Moderate
To pull off the classic ballet dancer position, stand facing your partner as you hook one leg around their waist. Hold onto each other for balance or lean against a wall or table for stability. To deepen the penetration, you can lift the leg up to your partner’s shoulder.
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What: Cross-Booty
Difficulty level: Moderate
This is similar to missionary sex, and you start in this position too, but the only difference is that your partner slides to make a 90-degree angle, both of your bodies making a cross, or X. This sex position allows you to stroke or massage your partner’s back, hips and thighs during penetration.
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What: Lean Into Me
Difficulty level: Moderate
Standing sex isn’t that hard if you have something sturdy to lean into. Think the kitchen countertop or bathroom wall! Face your partner, and hook one leg around theirs for support. Make sure you’re both stable before penetration.
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What: The Rabbit
Difficulty level: Moderate
In this sex position, your penetrating partner lies flat on their back, legs placed together. Now, you have to lower yourself onto them, guiding them in. Stretch out your body over theirs with your toes touching their feet. Kick against their feet slowly to establish a back-and-forth rocking movement, that resembles a hopping rabbit.
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Don’t Miss It!
While different sex positions amp up the fun, a few of these ideas can go a long way.
Shower Sex:
Soap up and bathe each other as you enjoy being soaked in water. But, don’t forget safety rules, keep your feet on the ground, and an anti-skid mat would be great.
Role Play:
Find out what his ultimate fantasies are, and see which of yours compare. Do you want to play a schoolgirl and teacher? A doctor and patient? Figure out which one of you should be in charge, plan, and stay in character.
Foreplay and Afterplay:
There’s little doubt that quickies are enjoyable, but spending time turning each other on, and post-sex cuddles, chats and spooning enhances the lovemaking experience.
Blindfold Him:
If your partner is amenable, try blindfolding him, and initiating sex. The fact that he isn’t able to see you enhances the sensory experience, and he will be more sensitive to touch. Allow him to return the favor.
FAQs: New Sex Positions
Q. How do some sex positions help you last longer?
A. Some sex positions prevent you from deep penetration. This lessens stimulation and helps you last longer. Couple this with slower movements and see the difference for yourself!
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Q. What are the best ways to last longer in bed naturally?
A. Apart from trying different sex positions, use condoms. Not only are they important to keep sexually transmitted diseases at bay and prevent unwanted pregnancies, condoms also dull sensation, helping you last longer in bed. Pausing right before orgasm and starting slow again also helps.
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Q. What makes a position good for people with a high sex drive?
A. Whether you enjoy deeper penetration or vigorous sex, these positions are great for you if you have a high sex drive:
- Doggy style
- 69
- Cowgirl
- Wheelbarrow
- Standing
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